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Tell us who you are, who you’re checking in on, and the memories that make texts feel like home. We’ll use this to personalize SMS. You can change this anytime.

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A few details help the texts fit your loved one.

Who you’re checking in on

Preferred name, phone, and hard boundaries — the rails for every text.

Preferred name * What messages should call them.

Mobile number (SMS) * US numbers only for now. We’ll tidy the format for you.

Time zone *

Their ZIP code Optional Helps us mention the weather and keep texts feeling local — not for junk mail or marketing. Optional for now, but helpful when we add weather and local touches. You can skip this and add it later.

Language

Topics to avoid Health fears, money, politics, ex-spouses — anything that’s off-limits.

People who matter (optional) Name + relation + one line. Up to three.

Important dates Optional Birthdays, anniversaries, and other days that matter — we’ll keep them in mind for check-ins.

Add a birthday or other special day — optional, but nice to have.

Year can be approximate — we mainly use month and day.

Memories and favorites

Quality over quantity. Fill at least 5 answers before continuing.

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What do you two always talk about? 3–5 topics.

Inside jokes or catchphrases

Places that matter

Trips or occasions they light up about

Daily / weekly rituals

Things that worry them lately Optional — for gentle check-ins only. Never medical advice.

Favorite emojis Optional We’ll use these sparingly — a little warmth, not a flood.

Tap a few they might enjoy — or skip for now.

We’ll prefer these; we won’t spam them.

Things they love Optional Sports teams, music, hobbies — little details that make a text feel personal.

Add a few favorites — or skip and come back later.

Gentle check-in topics Optional Optional topics you’re okay having us ask about in a warm, everyday way — not medical advice.

Not medical advice. We don’t diagnose or give medical advice. Never invent clinical content. Only share what you’re comfortable with.

Skip unless there’s something gentle you’d like us to check on.

What’s going on lately Optional Anything helpful for the next week or two — a visit, a move, company coming by.

How should we handle “Is this really you?” *

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About you

Who you’re checking in on

Memories and favorites

Schedule and quiet hours

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